You are more generous than I and maybe a better person.
In the past, those norms assumed that women were worth the man being the initiator. When one side of an equation changes the other side does, too.
Now, women want to give it away left and right and then, when they want to settle down, they want to charge full retail for what they were giving away for 10 years. Sometimes when they have kids in tow from one of their giveaways… and they do it with a straight face.