Wrong. Women and men perceive the world differently. This is silly.
Women do the choosing. She can be giving you all the approach cues in the world but that doesn't mean anything. As men, we know that no matter what we do she will always retain plausible denial and we can be wrong at any moment for any "reason".
Claiming that this is rational is a form of simping. It's not rational and never will be. When you finally get that you will understand how women "think".