This is a GREAT article! Sadly. women make all these mistakes and still manage to sound entitled in their bios.
The reason that guys don't spend time messaging is because it is a waste of time. It takes time to craft a unique message and women NEVER write back. You have to be a jerk if you want them to respond.
Would you date a man that invested $100 dollars and got back a buck fifty? That is what investing in messaging gets you. Nada.