I get that women seem irrational and slightly off-kilter and you are probably watching me somewhat closely at first to make sure I am not a fruitcake. The truth is, sometimes I am. I was probably a lot more “sane” and rational in my 20’s, but that doesn’t mean I was actually better. I am at my best and I do believe I am only getting better.
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So, you admit that you behavior seems crazy at times but we should just take your word that you're "better" now? Who says so besides you?
Men don't watch for fruitcake behavior just in the beginning. We have to be ever watchful. It never ends.
Karen Jones nailed it. Men can't read minds.