OK Cupid did a study that reported that 100% of women find 80% of men to be "unattractive".

So, 100% of women are chasing Chad, essentially. Add the height requirement that nobody wants to acknowledge and you are at 5%. These guys have options and are exercising them. Welcome to the sexual marketplace.

If a man could ask a women over 30 how many partners she's had and get an honest answer (this will never happen) then the answer may well surprise everyone. Double digits would not be at all unusual.

Women do the choosing. There's no getting around that. Stop choosing players and you will stop getting played. It's quite simple.