I see the "let's be friends first" thing all the time. It is total BS. You are either interested in a guy or you are not. How many guys have gotten sucked into the friendzone and watched a women drop her pants 15 minutes after meeting a Chad? Roughly 100% of us. We are not stupid (well, not all of us).
Women want to gather a group of Beta Orbiters and slowly make a choice on their time. No, thanks. That's my boundary. I want a women who has genuine burning passion for me. It usually takes about three dates to figure this out one way or another so I agree that this guy was a bit too pushy but I understand where he was coming from.