I loved this article. You have a new reader and fan. That said i disagree diametrically with this statement.
As a happily single man who would love to find a healthy partnership I can guarantee you that 1) women have absolutely no interest in what men want and 2) absolutely no interest in learning. If you don't believe me simply sign up for any dating site as a male and scroll through the first 500 female profiles.
You will see a litany of demands and entitlement.
Men flock to websites and youtube channels trying to figure out what women want and there are thousands. There is no analog for women trying to understand men's' needs because there is no demand for it.
When it comes to the shaming aspect I agree with you 100%